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Breaking Down Communication Road Blocks

Communication is important in a relationship. Effective communication is even crucial for a long-lasting relationship. One of the main reasons for breakups in a relationship is the inability to understand each other. Respect your partner. Understanding your partner means respecting him/her. Respect your partner’s personal space and time to carry out his/her daily activities alone. Respect your partner’s rights to speak out or make decisions. Do not dominate your partner’s every move and thought. Accept your partner for who he/she is. This requires tolerance. You must be able to tolerate your partner’s weaknesses and ways of handling difficulties faced, and his/her lifestyle. If you find it unbearable anymore, try to talk to your partner. Realize that your partner has a different perception from yours. When making decisions together, always remember that he/she has individual opinions, choices, and thoughts too. This will prevent misunderstandings and heated arguments. Give full suppor…

What is Unconditional Love?

If you love unconditionally, you are willing to sacrifice everything for your loved ones. You are not asking for something in return because you love them more than anything else in the world. No matter how hard things may be, you can patiently wait because your love is there. There are no limitations, no conditions and no boundaries in a mother’s love. You always accept and love your children no matter what type of person they become. As for the real unconditional love, you are willing to wait patiently for the right time when your child will also feel the same way towards you. Just like in a relationship of two people, you will know if it is really unconditional love if both of you are feeling the same towards each other. There is no way you can prove your unconditional love because there is no exact word to describe it because you can only show it. If you feel that you have this unconditional love for someone, then it means that you are also ready to feel hurt and pain just to prov…

Top 10 Reasons We Need Unconditional Love

1. Accept your imperfection and forgive yourself. Unconditional love means being true to one’s self. If you can accept your imperfections, then surely, you can give unconditional love to other people. There is no such thing as a perfect human and what you are up to is not just being a good person, but receiving love itself. Every child needs full attention, presence, care, affection and appreciation from their parents, not perfection. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes. As long as you know how to forgive yourself, you can find a way to correct your mistakes. You can start by changing the way you talk about yourself. When you hear negative thoughts about you, always remind yourself that your goal is not perfection but to love yourself and other people.

2. Just like a muscle, unconditional love also needs workout. Almost everyone is carrying a heavy lift in their life such as lies, mistakes, pretence and other difficulties. If you will always carry this load in your life, then you will en…